Audacious and absolutely Stupid

Isn't there some kind of code out there? A moral code, a ethical code, a chivalry code... a man code even that states when a girl is dating a guy, you as a 3 party guy doesn't go and ask out the girl with a boyfriend? A not very nice word comes to mind as I think about a guy like that. A REALLY not nice word. Total strangers... OK I can see that, but a guy who knows your situation? Complete and utter retardation. Better yet, when I think about it, doesn't that kind of set an unhealthy pattern that is akin to adultery??? I had better stop, it's late and I need sleep. Maybe I will write another blog later and revise what I am now thinking and feeling.